Consent must cover the specific act
Consent to penetration does not automatically include consent to ejaculation inside the vagina. Consent to dirty talk does not automatically include consent to make the fantasy real.
The specific act, timing, contraception assumptions and pregnancy risk must be understood before the encounter.
Boundaries should be usable in real time
A boundary that only exists in someone’s head cannot protect either person. It should be communicated in language both people understand.
- What is explicitly allowed?
- What requires a fresh verbal confirmation?
- What is never allowed?
- Which words mean slow down?
- Which words mean stop immediately?
- What changes if contraception is uncertain?
- What changes if testing information is unavailable?
Consent continues throughout the experience
A person may withdraw consent at any time, including after initially requesting the activity. A changed mind does not require a persuasive explanation.
Anything involving pressure, stealth, deception, sabotage or refusal to stop is outside the BreedMeNow concept and may be unlawful.
Biology does not negotiate
Internal ejaculation can involve pregnancy and STI risk. Confidence, attraction or verbal reassurance do not remove that risk.
Healthcare questions should be addressed with qualified clinicians. BreedMeNow does not provide medical testing, diagnosis, contraception advice or guarantees.