Woman-first conversation checklist
Talk about it while everyone is calm.
Print this page or use it as a private conversation guide before any arrangement is considered.
Intent
Health and biology
Consent and boundaries
Partners and privacy
Aftercare and next steps
Stop the process when:
- Consent is unclear, pressured or withdrawn.
- A partner is being deceived.
- Testing or pregnancy assumptions cannot be discussed honestly.
- Someone refuses a stated boundary.
- Medical or legal questions need professional advice first.