Woman-first conversation checklist

Talk about it while everyone is calm.

Print this page or use it as a private conversation guide before any arrangement is considered.

Intent

Health and biology

Consent and boundaries

Partners and privacy

Aftercare and next steps

Stop the process when:

  • Consent is unclear, pressured or withdrawn.
  • A partner is being deceived.
  • Testing or pregnancy assumptions cannot be discussed honestly.
  • Someone refuses a stated boundary.
  • Medical or legal questions need professional advice first.